Category Archives: Self Esteem

Valuing yourself and recognising the value in others

Transforming poverty consciousness into abundance consciousness

Last week I wrote about changing external behaviours in relationship, this week I want to bring it back to the financial side of things. As with our ability to have relationship with people we also have a relationship with money. … Continue reading

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Re-balancing Values when they clash

Last week I wrote about how sometimes our values can be in conflict in such a way that they block us from achieving from life the things we want. For me this was particularly true in that I had a … Continue reading

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Can values be negative?

Following on from last week I want to explore the question raised by one of my readers about whether a value can be negative. If a value is important to you it is important. Someone else might view it negatively … Continue reading

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Understanding Values and how they shape our lives

I received a number of emails from readers about this new series and as a result will be addressing a few of the questions raised before proceeding in more depth. Here are the questions: What is a value? How are … Continue reading

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Getting perspective, how am I creating this?

This week I want to start exploring how we can move from being “at effect” to “at cause” in our life. You will remember from last week that being “at effect” is the experience of feeling helpless and victim like. … Continue reading

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Re-balancing our ability to self evaluate

Last week I began talking about how being overly externally referenced can lead to a risk of placing our self esteem into the hands of others. As I mentioned last week we will have developed this style of referencing for … Continue reading

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Noticing when we are giving our Power away to others and learning to take it back

I received several messages from people last week about their own experience of being externally referenced so I’ll continue the discussion there. So first here is reminder of the definition of the external referencing part of this NLP metaprogram. This … Continue reading

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Feedback, who should you believe?

As I continue to add my thoughts about Personal Power and how to develop it I realise how many things are connected. Over the last few weeks I have been writing about feedback and I will continue a little longer … Continue reading

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Choosing our response, the path to personal growth

Yesterday we completed our NLP Trainer’s Training.  Our students had studied hard and successfully passed three days of tough assessments including a written exam, two presentations and two demonstrations! They were and are all magnificent! Well done everyone. Reflecting on … Continue reading

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What does is Choice and how do you know you have it?

Last week I spoke about why choice is important as a means to stepping into your personal power. This week let us get clear about the definition of choice. Acting without choice means we are operating on an automatic pilot … Continue reading

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