Category Archives: Perception

Transforming poverty consciousness into abundance consciousness

Last week I wrote about changing external behaviours in relationship, this week I want to bring it back to the financial side of things. As with our ability to have relationship with people we also have a relationship with money. … Continue reading

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Keeping the Value of “Security” Healthy!

Last week I wrote about how important “security” has been as a value in my life and I want to clarify something very important. I am not suggesting that having security as a value is negative, I am merely suggesting … Continue reading

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Relationship poisons, how we accidentally damage our relationships!

This week I’m re-publishing a blog about relationships as it really connects with how values can clash in a relationship. Next week I will write a new blog about security and relationships. Here is the relationship blog to get you … Continue reading

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Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?

Last week we began exploring the impact of being internally referenced in a given context using NLP Metaprograms. Reading back last weeks blog I realise I was not clear about the definition so here it is. You are internally referenced … Continue reading

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Expressing your Power, Speak up for yourself!

Continuing with my series of blogs on Personal Power I would like to introduce you to Trish Cherry. Trish kindly sent me some of her ideas as I had requested about her own take on Personal Power. Trish is a … Continue reading

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How identity beliefs shape our bodies and minds

Now that you have completed last week’s exercises it is time to do some analysis. Look back at your writing or your pictures, if you did a visual exercise and begin making a note of the beliefs that are revealed. … Continue reading

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Internal pictures create our external reality so see yourself positively!

Last week I gave you an exercise to do about creating a current positive image of yourself and a future self to aim for. As a result of this I received some comments about how for some people this exercise … Continue reading

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When food is love and refusing is rejection!

This week I am continuing my discussions about the various ways that patterns are installed in childhood that condition adults to continue to overeat even when they don’t want to. In some families and even entire cultures the symbolic meaning … Continue reading

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When food equals comfort!

I want to start this blog by thanking all the people who have contacted me over the last week or so either via this page or through the various Linkedin discussion threads in the special interest groups. I have received a … Continue reading

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Owning it and letting go of weight

There is a curious thing I have noticed about people with weight issues who are not yet ready to let go of it. They have often developed a detailed mythology to explain their weight and provide evidence why for them … Continue reading

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