Creating a Positive Self Image to motivate you to achieve your target

This week we are going to build on the exercise we started last week. I wonder how many features of your own body you allowed yourself to like and admire? Did you look at yourself through the eyes of someone who loves you?
This week you are going to work further with your internal images of yourself so that you can create a sense of motivation and success.

Close your eyes and create a picture of yourself in your mind. If you have been doing last week’s exercise this image will already be positive. Take a moment now to prepare this image for today’s exercise. Imagine the image of yourself with a white or pastel coloured background. Take away all the context images. One way to picture this is to see yourself as if you have had your picture taken using the current trend in professional photographer studios where there is a blank background.

As you look at that image of yourself firstly make sure it is a current image of the “you” with your current age. See yourself at your best, well groomed, wearing something attractive and looking motivated. As you look at yourself make sure you are noticing that in this picture you have all the personal qualities necessary for you to achieve your goal. In this series we have been talking about seeing yourself a healthy, attractive body size and shape. See yourself with the focus, motivation, confidence, determination, desire, strength, courage, joy, passion and ability to make choices that will make all the difference. Perhaps there is another personal quality that for you is particularly important. Add that in too.
Now make that picture bright, vibrant, positive, colourful, in focus and located just in front of you.

Now imagine floating up above this version of yourself down there in the present moment. From up here looking down you can see a line marking out your past and your future. From up here you can see all the steps that you need to take to achieve your goals and how easily you can do that. How now it is almost automatic. As you look toward to the future notice the point on your future timeline where you have achieved your goal. This might be three months time, six months time or even a year.

Float forward along your timeline until you are floating just above that version of yourself, that version of yourself that has achieved your goal. Notice what it is you had to learn about yourself in order to get here. Perhaps you had to learn how to create appropriate boundaries with others, perhaps you had to speak up for yourself, perhaps you needed to make some important decisions about who you spend time with. Even though you may not know the specifics know that your unconscious mind can store all of that information to ensure that this change in your body is also in your best and highest good.

Now from here in the future look back toward the present and notice a series of images of yourself. You will notice that as each week passes your body will have gradually changed as you moved closer and closer to your goal. Now float down into that version of yourself, the “you” that has achieved the results you have always wanted. Experience what it feels to be this version of yourself. Choose a word to represent how that feels. This is your anchor.

Now float up once more and float back toward your present taking all of those positive feelings and qualities with you. Float back down into your body once more in the present, now. Notice how it feels to know you have what it takes to be successful. Say that word to yourself right now. Feel those feelings throughout your body.

Having completed this exercise take a few moments to write in your journal what you are now going to do to achieve your goals knowing that you can. Repeat the exercise several times a week over the next few months as you move toward your goal.
Next week I will be picking up on a comment made by one of our regular contributors.

Quick reminder, we still have some places on our NLP Diploma in Crowborough next month. The dates are 20th to 23rd June. You can attend the first two days for free to make sure this event is for you. For more details and to download a booking form go to our NLP website

About Melody @ GWizlearning

Melody spent fourteen years gathering experience of the business world working in banking, telecommunications and the public sector before co-founding The GWiz Learning Partnership in 1993. Melody has a Masters Degree in Applied Positive Psychology, a degree in Psychology and a diploma in Psychotherapy. She is an NLP Master Trainer which allows her to run NLP Practitioner, NLP Master Practitioner and NLP Trainer Training courses certified by the Positive School of Intrinsic Neuro-Linguistc Psychology. She is also a qualified Myers Briggs practitioner and EI practitioner and added to all this is five years Transactional Analysis training, meaning she is able to help organisations access the hidden potential in their staff. She is also in demand for her work in transforming average or even troubled teams into high performers. Melody is a visiting lecturer at University of East London, teaching "Wellbeing and Positive Psychology" to undergraduates. Additionally, she is a member of the CIPD and is ILM accredited. Melody's interests are many and varied. She has a keen interest in personal development, canine and wolf psychology, conservation, movies and running. She also enjoys western horse riding, walking the GWiz dogs, nature watching and stage combat (particularly sword fighting).
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